In 2018, my wife Mary and I arrived in North Frontenac as weekenders, eager to embrace the peace of cottage life. By 2019, it became our full-time home, and in 2020, I took a leap of faith—launching a business with no experience. The years since have brought joy, challenges, and lessons I’ll carry forward.
After seven years, we’ve decided it’s time to move on. As we prepare for the next chapter, I want to share my reflections with gratitude and honesty.
The Unmatched Beauty Rural Life in North Frontenac
North Frontenac is stunning. Thanks to incredible support for my business, I’ve driven down nearly every road in the township, and the scenery never fails to impress. The lakes, forests, and winding roads are second to none.
It’s no surprise this area remains a hidden gem—a haven for locals, cottagers, and retirees looking for a peaceful escape from busy city life.
Entrepreneurship in Rural Ontario
When I founded Canadian Handywoman in 2020, I knew it would be a challenge. What I didn’t know was just how much I’d have to adapt each year.
Business in North Frontenac is shaped by seasonal rhythms and community needs. Many businesses focus on tourists and part-time residents, which makes it tricky for year-round entrepreneurs. That reality pushed me to evolve my services in ways I never expected.
Adjusting to Rural Life Rhythms
‘Country Time’ is real.
Despite being partly raised in a rural setting, most of my life had been spent in the city. I arrived with ingrained expectations about services, infrastructure, and community engagement.
What city residents consider “basic”—like road maintenance, programming, or investment—is often handled here by volunteers or approached with a “this is how it’s always been done” mindset. For long-time residents, it’s normal. For a newcomer, it takes time and patience to adjust.
Finding My Place in a Rural Community
Integrating wasn’t always easy. Traditions run deep here, and established networks can feel hard to break into. At times, I felt like an outsider.
But there were moments of encouragement, too. Winning the Women-Led Business Award from the County of Frontenac reminded me that even when I felt on the margins, my work was seen and appreciated.
The Treasured Connections
What I’ll treasure most are the people—clients who welcomed me into their homes and often became friends, and local business owners who offered advice when I was finding my footing.
These connections made this chapter of my life deeply meaningful.
Moving Forward While Staying Connected
Though my primary residence is changing, North Frontenac will always be part of my life. The lessons I’ve learned here about resilience and adaptability will serve me well wherever I go.
I’ll also be maintaining many local client relationships and growing my online community to include neighbours across Frontenac, Quinte, Hastings, and Lennox & Addington. Rural communities share similar challenges, and I believe there’s strength in connecting across township lines.
A Bittersweet Farewell
Leaving is bittersweet. I need to be closer to family who rely on my support, and in a place where infrastructure and municipal services align more closely with my needs and values.
The beauty of rural living comes with trade-offs, and I’ve realized that at this stage of my life, a different setting will better serve both me and my business.
Rural Life Reflection and Final Thoughts
Life in North Frontenac has so much to offer those whose lives align with it. I share this reflection simply as my personal experience—neither a blueprint nor a critique.
Different people thrive in different environments. What challenged me might be exactly what someone else loves about rural living.
My hope is that these reflections add to the conversation about belonging, community, and staying true to yourself. North Frontenac has shaped Mary and me in countless positive ways, and for that, we’ll always be grateful.
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Tammy Watson,
Founder, Canadian Handywoman
